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Saturday, May 25, 2013
Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: Is my marriage normal Or Abnormal ?
I got married in 2008 to a military man and we have not lived together up to a month at a stretch except twice when I had my babies and was on maternity leave. He is always being transferred from one state to the other. I am a banker and can't keep moving with him because I need to keep my job and also be independent. Please I need to know if there are other families in my shoes.
Stupid question. Before you got married to him, weren't you aware of his unpredictable transfers? is it after your marriage that he was being transferred from one state to the other? If you are not okay that way, look for sugar boy and solve your problem until you are given casual leaves to be visiting your husband wherever he is. you were looking for power and protection but what has it turned out now? It's making you an object of mockery. Believe me, other people who were in your shoes heeded to my advise and they are living happily, even smarter that their husbands hardly know they are double-dating. if you think that double-dating (or cheating as you may call it) is not okay by you, then resign and travel around with him. Better still, ask him to find you a job in the military, maybe you would be posted alongside him anytime he is due for transfer.
If you need a sugar boy, don't fail to call me to come over.
The real question is which do u prefer ,ur family or ur job.As 4 ur ques dere are many families lik urs but I advice u quit the job,it's not wot ur FAMILY!!!
Stupid question. Before you got married to him, weren't you aware of his unpredictable transfers? is it after your marriage that he was being transferred from one state to the other? If you are not okay that way, look for sugar boy and solve your problem until you are given casual leaves to be visiting your husband wherever he is. you were looking for power and protection but what has it turned out now? It's making you an object of mockery. Believe me, other people who were in your shoes heeded to my advise and they are living happily, even smarter that their husbands hardly know they are double-dating. if you think that double-dating (or cheating as you may call it) is not okay by you, then resign and travel around with him. Better still, ask him to find you a job in the military, maybe you would be posted alongside him anytime he is due for transfer.
ReplyDeleteIf you need a sugar boy, don't fail to call me to come over.
The real question is which do u prefer ,ur family or ur job.As 4 ur ques dere are many families lik urs but I advice u quit the job,it's not wot ur FAMILY!!!
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