Want
to know whether he’ll be good in bed before you agree to that second
date? Discover the 10 tell-tale signs that reveal whether he’s likely to
be hot (or not) between the sheets…
1. He has a big appetite
Want
a man who makes love with gusto? Suggest a dinner date and watch how he
eats. After all, how he tucks into his food should give you a good
indication of how he might nibble on your ears, neck, toes… and
everywhere else in between.
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For
starters, does he have a hearty appetite? Great lovers enjoy all the
pleasures life has to offer – especially the sensual ones, like eating. A
good appetite usually mean’s he’s got a lusty libido to match.
Does
he savour each mouthful of food or stuff his face? Watch out for the
wham-bam-thank-you man who demolishes a meal in 10 seconds flat. There’s
a difference between a healthy appetite and a man who’s in a rush to
satisfy his needs.
2. Body language doesn’t lie
It’s
estimated that 93 percent of human communication is via body language
and tone – and only 7 percent is conveyed by the actual words we use.
When it comes to talking s*x, the body doesn’t lie.
If
you’re on your first date and notice that he avoids eye contacts, sits
back and away from you or has his arms folded, it’s not worth having a
second date – no matter what he says. These are all signs of disinterest
– or at the very least, you’re dealing with a cold fish.
If
he keeps a close eye on the door and his feet point towards the exit,
get your coat and go. He’s either waiting for a better offer to walk in,
or wants out – so don’t waste your time.
3. He dresses well – but not too well
We
all want a man who looks good – but if he has more lotions and potions
and takes longer to get ready than you, it doesn’t bode well.
If
he’s a complete peacock – obsessed with his looks and skin care regime –
he may not like ‘messy’ fun in bed. And he might be more concerned with
the way he looks in the mirror then letting go for a hot romp. Worse,
he might be overly critical of you, how you look and what you do in bed.
If he’s let himself go and doesn’t care at all about looks he’ll probably be lazy in bed.
4. He’s a great dancer
Dancing
can be intimate, passionate and fun – watch his moves on the dance
floor and you’ll get a good idea of his skills between the sheets. So
what exactly should you be looking for?
Three
things, variety, rhythm, and an ability to lose himself in the music.
Bad dancers and awkward, self conscious floor-shufflers need not apply –
and if he can’t dance without moving the lower half of his body? It’s a
safe bet to assume he’s not driven by lust.
Avoid
the exhibitionists who are likely to be as vain and self-absorbed in
bed as they are on the dance floor, and the man who makes jerky, hectic
movements. He might as well have a neon sign around his neck saying ‘I’m
a premature ejaculator.”
5. He’s good with money
While
money can’t buy you love (or make you great in bed), there’s a lot you
can tell about a man from his ‘relationship’ with money.
If
he flashes the cash and tries to show off through money he’ll probably
put on a ‘performance’ in bed but not actually ask you what you want.
“Such men usually have a tried-and-tested s*x routine and don’t bother
finding out what a new partner likes, so you’ll have to tell him loud
and clear what works for you.
On
the other hand, if he’s tight with money there’s a good chance he’ll
hold back in bed too. An inhibition to spend money will probably be
reflected in s*xual inhibitions too.
6. He’s a great talker
Have
you noticed what he does with his hands when he talks? According to the
experts, how a man gestures reveals what kind of lover he will make.
And if he can’t help expressing himself with his hands over dinner, just
imagine what use he’ll put them to in bed.
Hand
gestures can reveal a great deal about a man’s s*xual personality. A
man who uses his hands in an expressive and tactile way is more likely
to make a sensuous lover.
Steer
clear of men who fiddle with their hands. According to the body
language experts, men who fidget are likely to be unsure of themselves
or disinterested in you.
7. He’s a fantastic kisser
You
can tell a lot about a man from the way his kisses – and not just
whether he has good technique or not. If you get to first base and the
kissing is intense, passionate and exciting, there’s every chance the
s*x will be too. If it’s not, then why go to third base at all?
If
he refrains from shoving his tongue down your throat, he won’t rush you
into s*x and that means you can expect foreplay galore. And if he gets a
little carried away during the make out session? Even better, who wants
a lukewarm lover?
The
most promising lovers are those who use a variety of techniques in
their kiss, she says. If he nips, chews, bites, and licks and really
explores all of your mouth, there’s every chance he’s going to be good
in bed.
8. He likes to sample new things
It’s
not just how he eats but what he eats. If your dinner date refuses to
try anything new, or won’t eat anything that doesn’t come with a slab of
red meat, it could be cause for concern.
Let’s
face it, if he’s not into experimenting or trying exotic fare, he’s
hardly going to dish up the Kama Sutra behind closed doors, is he?
Bread-and-butter taste in food equals bread-and-butter s*x.
The
real test for food though, is if he shares. The guy who offers you a
mouthful of his main course and chooses the yummiest-tastiest part for
you to try is definitely a keeper. And if he hand feeds you chocolate
dessert from his spoon? Marry him!
9. He drives a stylish car
A man’s choice of car says a lot about his s*xual prowess. You might
think that a flash motor guarantees a high performance ride in bed – but
you’d be wrong. A man who drives an expensive sports car may be more
interested in looking good than he is about you. What they say about
flash cars and man-hood extensions is true. If he’s all show you have to
wonder if he has substance too.
Of course it’s not just what he drives, but how he drives. No one wants to stay in the slow lane forever, but if he speeds and is reckless there’s a good chance he won’t make a considerate lover. A man who takes his time over his manoeuvres and performs them with skill and precision is likely to give you a smooth ride in the bedroom too.
10. He works out
Of course it’s not just what he drives, but how he drives. No one wants to stay in the slow lane forever, but if he speeds and is reckless there’s a good chance he won’t make a considerate lover. A man who takes his time over his manoeuvres and performs them with skill and precision is likely to give you a smooth ride in the bedroom too.
10. He works out
Men who keep fit tend to make good lovers – they’re likely to feel
more confident in their appearance, plus they have the stamina to keep
going all night. Not to mention having good multi-tasking skills and
great hand to eye co-ordination!
But what can you tell about a man from the type of fitness he does, or the sport he plays? If your potential lover is a cyclist, runner or swimmer, you’re in luck. These all require good endurance, which means he’ll know how to pace himself and how to go the distance.
Obsessive fitness freaks, or men who spend hours pumping iron at the gym are best avoided. If he’s more interested in building big muscles than his fitness, it could be a sign that he’s lacking in confidence or trying to cover up an insecurity – like being rubbish in bed.
But what can you tell about a man from the type of fitness he does, or the sport he plays? If your potential lover is a cyclist, runner or swimmer, you’re in luck. These all require good endurance, which means he’ll know how to pace himself and how to go the distance.
Obsessive fitness freaks, or men who spend hours pumping iron at the gym are best avoided. If he’s more interested in building big muscles than his fitness, it could be a sign that he’s lacking in confidence or trying to cover up an insecurity – like being rubbish in bed.
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