I'm a 54 year old woman who for the very first time within my adult life experienced an actual fight with a 21 year old girl. She slapped, kicked and even tore my blouse facing my pregnant daughter. I'm writing this letter with the consent of my daughter.
I'm a lecturer in a Christian university in the east and I head to Lagos every weekend to see my family. Been married for over 30yrs and I've a daughter.
I'm a lecturer in a Christian university in the east and I head to Lagos every weekend to see my family. Been married for over 30yrs and I've a daughter.
Ok, My daughter phoned me 1 day and said concerning this 21 year old girl her father has rented a home and have purchased a car for her. She also said she suspected they've a child together because she checked this girl on Internet and she puts pictures of a child up....
So after further investigation we found out where she lived and one good sunday morning after church we went there. I saw her, very pretty young girl. She even looked younger than 21. Calmly I started to talk to her, asking her questions like my own daughter and she answered respectfully. She was calm until her mother came out and ask who we were.
And then you know daughters now. My daughter challenged the woman Before we knew what was happening, this little girl just changed , as if she was charmed and started to curse my daughter She and my daughter started exchanging words and my daughter called her son a bastard. Dat was all. This girl rushed gave my 30 year old pregnant daughter a slap she ll never forget in a hurry.
Being a mother I tried to defend my daughter who has started to shout. My intension wasn't to fight . But I couldn't help when I realized we were being attacked. This girl slapped me n tore my blouse, while her brother or boyfriend was busy filming everything with his phone.
Since then someone has been blackmailing me with the video of me fighting with my breasts hanging out, threatened to put it online if I don't pay certain amount. The question is should I pay or just face the humiliation. I know my job is on the line. My husband that caused all these is away in the US but has given me his consent to arrest her and her friends.
I'm soon to be a grand mother. Should I arrest these people and risk everything or just pay and leave the rest to God.
Btw Linda, u are doing a nice job. Well done my dear. God bless u all as u help us. Amen
One thing u need to know is that blackmailers don't stop at once, they always come back for more. The question to u is do you want to keep paying till God knows when?
ReplyDeleteTrue. They are like scammers, they always call back.
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