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Saturday, August 2, 2014

Dearest Omo Oodua readers: why do some women think it is difficult to help in the house?



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I have now been married for one year and a half and my marriage isn't what I believed it'd be. My partner does nothing like to contribute financially in the home. Considering that I earn more income than she does, but it's not an offense to simply help out with little things. Sometimes I come home to no food or food without meet or fish and when I ask her she says I didn't drop any money before leaving. Sometimes I come home from work very tired and there's no light. When I ask her what happened to the generator, she informs me there's no fuel. So she can't buy fuel? I've to do everything? She says her money is hers alone and to simply help her family but she keeps forgetting that I and our daughter ought to be her priority.
What can I do to make her change her ways? I'm not asking her to do much, just little things like buy the chicken or fish for stew and soup, and fuel sometimes when I'm not home. And maybe soap, toothpaste, pure-water, salt, maggi, and onions?

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