Woman Set To Marry The Same Man Who Has Jilted Her At The Alter 4 Times! This i must say is probably the most weird story of'love'and patience i have ever read. I still cant imagine while this 37yr old lady, who has been jilted 4 times by the exact same man, (her 67 year old fiance) 4 whole times, and she still hasn't given up on him. she hopes this fifth time, there could be a genuine wedding....
The preparations for a great summer wedding had begun. One of London's most opulent venues have been booked and the bridal gown - a strapless, ballerina-length silk confection from Elizabeth Emanuel - stood ready on its mannequin.
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A bunch of embossed invitations have been printed and 90 guests had marked the date inside their diaries
The wedding of model Susan Sangster to actor Frank Mughan promised to be always a magnificent occasion. The reception was to be at the Hurlingham Club, a grand neo-classical mansion beside the Thames at Fulham.
While the big day in August 2008 grew closer, Susan's excitement increased: she'd waited until she was 37 to marry and was certain Frank - cultured, charming and 24 years her senior - would be a loving and dependable husband in addition to a passionate dad to her son Luke, then six, from an earlier relationship
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But she's never had to be able to learn because in the same way she was poised to handle the invitations, Frank decided he did not need to get married after all - at least not yet. It was all a lot of, too soon, he said.
He suggested the wedding be downgraded to an engagement party. This way the glorious venue - for which they'd paid £5,000 - would not be wasted.
Susan was understandably bereft. She and Frank had known each other for pretty much per year; your decision to tie the knot had not been a hasty one.
But she hid her disappointment, went together with his plan and steeled herself for the duty of explaining to her family that the nuptials have been deferred.
‘I was acutely embarrassed and in floods of tears when I told my mum,' recalls Susan. ‘But she said: “An engagement is a step forward, so don't worry.” And Frank had apologised and reassured me that he loved me.I accepted it had been an enormous step for him. He was 61 and a bachelor who lived with his mother. This was his first marriage and he'd also be taking on the role of father to my son. So I was prepared to be patient. And, as he pointed out, we should do things in the best order, holding an engagement party first.'
Most women, she concedes, could be less forgiving. But Frank, she believed, was worth waiting for. Perversely, she still saw him as solid and dependable, and accepted his argument which they needed more time to organise the wedding.
I noticed him as he walked in,' she says, ‘He's 6ft 4in, well-built and very fit and muscular. When he spoke if you ask me I was struck by his warm and cultured voice‘I was interested in him. He's a great listener, amusing and emotionally supportive,' says Susan, who had been still smarting from the break-up of her relationship with Luke's father, an eye surgeon. ‘The very fact he'd held it's place in movies did entice me. I thought he was a small catch.'
Frank wasted no amount of time in suggesting they meet again. The relationship flourished and, although initially disquieted by age gap, Susan conceded that Frank looked much younger than his years.
He met her family, then whisked her off for a romantic weekend in Paris. An impartial observer could not need failed to believe he was madly deeply in love with her. From the off, there is a tacit agreement that marriage would follow. Indeed, he bought her a diamond engagement ring, and talk turned to weddings.
‘It was a simple conversation - we both mentioned marrying at various times. Ultimately we said: “Let's just take action!” ' remembers Susan.
She began organising their wedding. ‘I saw an outfit for Luke. I bought my dress. Then his sister, Sharon, who's a person in the Hurlingham Club, helped us get the space there. I thought, “Wow!” It was the right wedding venue.'
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