Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: I don't want any more kids but that's the condition for getting married again

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I am a 39 year old divorcee with three lovely kids. I'd given up on love and romance when this man suddenly showed up in my life four years ago. We've been engaged for two years now but he insists the only way he would go ahead with a wedding is if I'm willing to give him children. I don't want any more children. I have a 13 year old, a 12 year old and a 9 year old and the last thing I want is to get pregnant again. My fiance doesn't have any kids of his own and says he wants at least two.

I love this man to death and he is good to my children but the thought of being pregnant again makes me suicidal. What do I do? Should I let him go?