Hear what she said after the break.
"My first cousin and my ex betrayed me. The whole story is complicated. She dated my boyfriend and married him. I had no idea what was going on until they were about to get married because she was pregnant for him. I did not introduce him to her. She knew him.
"He was my Uncle's best man and we were in the bridal train. He met us together and went after me. We had a relationship for some years, two years at a stretch, then it became off and on and all those times she knew. She was even engaged to someone else at the time."
What do you think of her story? Have you ever experience such betrayal or know anyone else who has? Do you have any advice for her?Unknown to me she 'worked' her NYSC down to Lagos to have my boyfriend. She was living with him and it didn't make any sense to me. Until later on, I found out they were getting married. What pained me most and the worst part of it was when I got to hear about it and confronted him, he said he can never do anything with my sister.and there you are getting her pregnant and marrying her. It got all messed up. This happened in September 2012. I haven't forgiven them. I don't think I ever will"
hmm, sorry o. Are you sure you acted well with the guy? if he trully loved you, he wont have gone for your cousin, maybe you need to get yourself checked. Sorry about that, just move on and i believe all will surely be well. Forgiving them is the best o, and that will free you of any guilt too.
ReplyDeleteJust forgive them. The truth is that he never loved you. Good thing he didn't marry u else he would have cheated on u which would have been worst. If u don't forgive them, u will only block your own miracles. Cheer up. Karma is always there. As long as there is life there is hope.
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