PLEASE ADVICE! I’m A Pastor But I've Slept With Other Ladies Bcos I Luv S3x

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I am a 40-year-old and my wife is 34 years. We have been married for about 12 years with three kids. The problem is that she does not satisfy me s3xually and this has made me patronise other women for s3x. I am a pastor, but in the last four years, I have had to sleep with two different ladies to satisfy my s3xual urges. My wife’s attitude is bad — she would not cook on time; she is dirty and never makes any move to ask for s3x. She only agrees whenever she senses that I am angry. 

I love her but how do I address this? I want to have her in bed daily because I have stopped all extra-marital affairs since the year began. I had already confessed to her and other co-pastors and I was forgiven. 
But there are times I want to go back to my old girlfriends due to loneliness...

What do I do? I have reported her to her family members and my pastors to no avail. What do I do?