I so regret agreeing to it.
I am 35, my wife is a year younger. We’ve been married for seven years but have been trying for a baby without success.We both got checked out and I was told the problem was mine and untreatable. Our only options were sperm donation or adoption.
We decided to go ahead with the donor option. My parents were supportive and willing to help with the cost, but we had no luck. My wife was beside herself and this had an impact on our relationship, and on my work as I found it hard to concentrate.
Once again my parents were supportive. They adopted me as a baby so they understood the longing for a child, but what they said next took me by surprise. They asked how I’d feel if my dad helped my wife to conceive.
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