It can happen even in the steamiest moment — you’re on the brink of an awesome cli max … and then nada. Maybe you got distracted by a nagging thought, like stressing out over unanswered work emails, or you were thrown off when your guy suddenly changed positions. Or maybe your clim ax just kind of petered out, and you’re not completely sure why. Whatever’s going on, there are techniques you can use to get back in the zone. Allow us to talk you through.
Think of Channing Tatum.
Letting your mind go to your se xy place, wherever it is (that time you and your guy hooked up on the kitchen table, the hottie with the ridic biceps at the gym who always says hi), will get you on track for a satisfying finish. “When you fantasize, your brain sends arou sal signals throughout your body, and extra blood is directed to your privates,” says Gail Saltz, M.D., author of
Letting your mind go to your se xy place, wherever it is (that time you and your guy hooked up on the kitchen table, the hottie with the ridic biceps at the gym who always says hi), will get you on track for a satisfying finish. “When you fantasize, your brain sends arou sal signals throughout your body, and extra blood is directed to your privates,” says Gail Saltz, M.D., author of
