My Boyfriend Doesn't Talk Unless He's H0rny

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I started dating someone this year though we have known each other for about 3 years and in those 3 years we have  been close and he has always wanted a relationship from me but I had always turned him down because I was dating someone as at then.


The first issue I have with this guy is that he doesn't really talk, like I want someone I'm in a relationship with to talk. When he calls, he only talks like 2mins on phone and that's all. When we chat and I raise stuffs  to talk about all I hear is 'OK', 'yep' and I have tried my best to really make him understand that I'm not comfortable with all of his response.
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'Why our top pastors are failing in marriage' - Relationship expert Praise Fowowe explains

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Relationship expert, Praise Fowowe, who is a self confessed sex addict turned relationship and sex counselor, in this incisive piece gave reasons why the marriages of some top pastors are packing up. Find his thought provoking piece below

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Pick race when a Woman Says: I Need US to have THIS Conversation..

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 Post written by Joy Isi Bewaji

• Girl: So…

Guy: So…

• Girl: I need for us to have this conversation

Guy: What conversation?

• Girl: We’ve been together for four years

Guy: Yea?

Ladies, can you Claim you've never done any one of this?

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1. Given your correct number/contact details out to a guy but refused to pick up the guy’s call or reply to messages.
2. Given a wrong number/contact details out to a guy.
3. Rude to a guy that approached you simply because you don’t fancy him, not because he did something wrong.
4. Rude to a guy that approached you simply because you wanted to use him to show off/shine in public, not because he did something wrong.
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Dearest Omo Oodua Readers: Could the Baby she's carrying be mine? Pls advice

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My girlfriend and I broke up just 4 months ago in April and I found out she got married this past weekend.  During the time we were dating, she kept asking me to marry her. In reality that has been the reason why she separated with me when I told her I wasn't ready to be settle down. We're both 28.
I was surprised at how quickly she'd found somebody else when I heard she was getting married in Asaba on Saturday limited to me to see the marriage photos and see she's heavily pregnant.
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Dearest Omo Oodua readers: My marriage in 2 months time but someone else is pregnant for him!

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I've fixed my wedding for October in the UK but I simply learned that another lady is pregnant for my fiance back in Nigeria. She's 6 months pregnant, due to deliver in October, same month I'm getting married. To state that I'm devastated is putting it mildly. I'm so hurt that I've shut myself from the surface world. I'm now so confused in regards to what to do. He's been begging me since I consequently found out never to cancel the wedding. 

Crucial Questions You need To ask Your Partner Before saying yes to dating.

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So you go around without looking for anyone's trouble then some damsel sweeps you off your feet and steals your breath for a moment, things get moving up and up and up and up, at some point it is always very important to hit the break pedal and analyse certain situations before delving into commitment - this is the moment of truth, the period in which you start to understand what is truly underneath the whole sexy curves, pretty face or rich guy, getting to know the real person and except you are also looking for a fling, you can let it go, but if you are planning on a future with such person - you would need to find out certain things from them aside your normal observations, some of the most common questions are:
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Dearest Omo Oodua: I've a higher s3xual libido, Please help..

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What's the best way to let your man know that you do not enjoy sex with him and you will need him to come up with something  or improve without offending him? I've a higher s3xual libido and I doubt I will undoubtedly be faithful to any man who can't give it if you ask me well. This is actually the man I plan to marry and I would love to be faithful but my s3xual satisfaction is essential to me. When he gives me head, he pretends to make use of his tongue when I understand it's his fingers. He's also not big on foreplay and doesn't last long. He always leaves me unsatisfied after each and every s3xual encounter. How can I let him understand without offending him? And can he even improve or is this how it will be? Na only me waka come, make I understand now to ensure that only me go begin to dey waka go

Is it a good idea for a Lady to invite her ex-lovers to her wedding?

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A lady who had been somewhat promiscuous in university days invited a few of her ex-lovers to her wedding who I'm aware of. She's doing great for herself in Chevron and her husband works in Mobil. I saw at least four guys she'd been with before at the marriage (including myself) and I wondered why she'd do that. I am aware I wouldn't want that, allow my fiancee's ex-lovers to go to my wedding but I see women think differently about matters like this. It will really be nice to understand what people think about this scenario.

Question of The Day: Who Suffers More After A Break-Up- The Man or The Woman?

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As ridiculous as it might sound, you will find worse things in life than death. If you've ever gone via a separation before, you'd agree totally that the knowledge thereafter is obviously hellish especially when you've invested a lot of emotion, time, effort and resources in the relationship.


It becomes even more excruciating if what you get in return for your investment is heartbreak. So, as usual, opinions were sampled from Nigerians to bare their minds on who ends up the most hurt after a break up. Roll with me.
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Endowed, s3xy actress Yvonne Okoro: " I’d rather be miserable than be in a relationship "

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 Voluptuous beauty, half-Nigerian, half-Ghanaian actress, Yvonne Okoro, isn't exactly the sort of damsel you'd think is in distress. She's nothing on her to cut that image and it doesn't appear her career is at risk either. If the beautifully endowed s3xy actress should come under any observation, I suppose the lots could be in her favour as she appears to be doing much better than ever, career wise.   

Dearest Omo Oodua Readers: How do you bring the spark back into a marriage?

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Please I want desperate help. I've been married for 8 years however the spark moved out of my marriage. My husband was previously so romantic but his priorities have changed since we'd our four kids. Its now about work and children for us. We haven't gone on a dinner date in years. We don't even make love anymore whereas previously we couldn't get enough of every other. I'm trying to rekindle the romance in my own marriage, please any suggestions? Serious replies only, please

Check if your BF is serious about you: The 50 signs that show you're in a committed relationship

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1. Meeting the parents 2. Exchanging house keys 3. Planning a holiday together 4. Discussing plans for the future 5. Being invited to family gatherings 6. Saying 'I love you' 7. Staying overnight at each other's houses 8. Signing Christmas / Birthday cards together 9. Seeing each other at least every other night 10. Leaving a toothbrush at each other's house Continue

Dearest Omo Oodua Readers: My husband says if I get pregnant again he'd leave. Pls help

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"I've three sons but I'd like to have a daughter desperately. My husband always said he wanted only two children and after the birth of our second son, he warned me not to get pregnant again. But because I needed agirl , I got pregnant again but had another son. I still want a woman and I'm willing to have the birthing process again but my husband says the afternoon I tell him I'm pregnant again, he'd end the marriage and walk away. I don't know how serious he is by the threat but I'm afraid to test him. What should I really do? I really like my sons but I really would like a daughter.

Dearest Omo Oodua reader: I am set to marry a man in 16 days but no more in love with him. Pls help.

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I'm about to get married. My wedding is in fact 16 days from now.I just realized I dont love my man like I used to. I dont know how to tell him how I feel. I'm so scared to break his heart. I have been trying to rekindle my feelings but its not working. I'm so confused and don't know what to do. I understand I can't cancel the marriage because everything is set but I can't help but feel I'm making a mistake. What should I actually do

I Want To End My Relationship With A Stingy Nigerian Guy.

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I am a girl of 22 years dating a guy of 27. We have been dating for almost a year, and I love this guy. But the problem is, he is really stingy. Maybe because he’s an Igbo.

Because of this, I have started to develop hatred for him. He doesn’t want to leave me. I say hurtful things on purpose to make him angry with me and let me go. However, the more I try, the more he convinces him to stay.

Egba mi o ! My Girl Friend Says; No S-ex, No Kiss, No Hugs. Pls Help!!!

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I met this girl in church on the 22nd of dec, 2013. i was so strongly attracted to her that i had to pass her a note to wait for me at the close of service.After service we met and chatted for awhile, then exchanged contacts and left. since i didnt want to appear desperate, i waited till 24th to call her and on the 26th we went on our first date. i instantly ‘fell in-love’ with her; she’ funny, very frank and above all, her se-x-appeal is like 101% on the high (great bosoms and a killer waist)…

8 Reasons Why You Still Dey Single (Naija Version)

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Clearly, some people are single since they decide to be. They're not enthusiastic about being in a serious relationship at this time in their life. Others are single due to the circumstances of life. They could have just gotten out of a meaningful relationship or have dated relentlessly and just haven't found someone with whom they're truly compatible. The idea of this short article isn't to stereotype all single women or men or to put anyone in a box. However, for individuals, especially those over 30, who are looking for answers to the puzzling question “Why am I still single?” here are some unconventional answers that lie within.
I will write the reasons in pidgin English so it would flow as easy as can be.

Dearest Omo Oodua readers: My brother is still friends with my ex, is it ok?

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I dated one of my brother's best friends for a year and two months and broke up with him just last November. My ex has moved on and so have I but what pisses me off right now is that my brother is still friends with this dude. I'm angry at that because our relationship ended because his friend cheated on me with someone in our inner circle.

Dearest Omo Oodua Readers: Please tell me what drove her away?

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I sent a message to a girl
"Would you like to be my facebook friend?"

She replied but a few days later
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She replied: "Can you speak good english???"
I interact only in English...