A person has outlined the many deficiencies in men and woman love affair these days and the way in which forward:
Dear Women, first of all, we're sorry.
We're sorry that although we look like men, we often become boys. We're not sure what it way to be men anymore. Even as we grow up, we learn that to be happy is to be self-indulgent and self-centered. We try to make enough money so that we can have the right TV with the right video games in the right home.
You want to date you and maybe even marry you but we're scared to target on somebody else in place of ourselves. Isn't it sad that we see committing for you as a possible threat to your happiness in place of a wonderful opportunity?Some tips about what we don't understand: True happiness arises from being true men.
We're sorry that although we look like men, we often become boys. We're not sure what it way to be men anymore. Even as we grow up, we learn that to be happy is to be self-indulgent and self-centered. We try to make enough money so that we can have the right TV with the right video games in the right home.
You want to date you and maybe even marry you but we're scared to target on somebody else in place of ourselves. Isn't it sad that we see committing for you as a possible threat to your happiness in place of a wonderful opportunity?Some tips about what we don't understand: True happiness arises from being true men.
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We think and become boys who don't want their toys taken away. We look around "role models" in the media who teach us to have as much gratification out of life as possible. We might claim to be spiritual, as well as firm atheists, but pleasure could be the god that we worship, whether we realize it or not. Unfortunately, women tend to be merely another section of our hedonistic lifestyle. Please know this: True men won't treat you like an irritating obstacle or even a séxual convenience.
A real man understands that women should be cherished and treated properly and honor. He sees marriage as the ability to become a real-life superhero—he results in his old identity and becomes a brand new person, focused on serving his wife and children. Although he'll struggle in the beginning, a true man who marries eventually understands he can't fit through the narrow doorway to happiness if he tries to transport every one of his toys with him. There's adequate room for him and his wife, arm in arm, committed for their marriage.
Women, you can help us become real men! Above all, we want to feel admired by you. Help us to understand that you love us just as we're, even if you have room for improvement. Do this by giving us words of validation; praise us for the items we do well. This means more to us than we let on.
In exchange, we will ensure that you're feeling loved and cherished by us. We will learn to consult with you so you can be heard and understood, not too that we can inform you how to solve your problems. We'll also try to understand to state how exactly we feel without withdrawing or getting angry. With polished communication we can learn that what makes you happy makes us happy too! Exactly what a concept!
Once more, we're sorry. We're to blame, although good male role models are hard to find these days. We've ignored our calling to become true men and instead become we're in senior high school for so long as we can. Please trust that we are designed for a lot more than this.
If you're frustrated with the person in your life, do your best to forgive him and start fresh. After a while, if it's clear he will not turn into a real man, leave him. You deserve better.
A wholesome relationship is likely to make everyone involved feel happy. Once we are happy, we are designed for living meaningful and fulfilling lives alongside one another. Thanks for your understanding and patience once we journey onward to get happiness and become real men.
Sincerely,
Men
Naija Gist,
Nigeria.
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