Original Message:
I'm so confused about this situation and I do want to know if I'm over reacting or this is very normal? I have now been friends with my friend for 6 years (since 08)... when I got into my relationship with my Ex, I introduced them together. Everything I had within my relationship, both good and bad, she knew about it.
To cut long story short, I was with My Ex boyfriend for 2 1/2 years and we broke up... But after our breakup, He still wanted me back and my so called friend knew about that ...She was one of those friends nevertheless to me "Awwww, you two are very cute together, why don't you get back with him'
Continue after the break.
Well, I didn't take him back because I knew it would bever work out between us.(He is just a big womanizer)
Although
we have been broken up for 1.5 years now, he only stopped trying to make amove on me sometime in April 2013 after he surprised me at my so called
close friends house or apartment with a cake.(In-fact, she planned the
surprise with him). I was flattered and happy but sometimes, somethings
which are broken can't be fixed.
Fast-forward a month after that, I met a fresh guy and up to now our relationship is a huge blessing to me.
Then
I started hearing rumors that my home-girl is dating my ex... I didn't
believe it because we officially ended everything between us 6 months
ago.
well, I walked in to them and dear Lord, You will have seen the look in her eyes.
And
how she got busted was so funny...I went on holiday in an different city with my current boyfriend and we went to a restaurant
to eat out one quiet morning...The waiter said to us that we have to hold back 15 minutes & while we stood by the door waiting to
be seated, Guess who walked in? My so called best-friend and my ex
boyfrend?
She
couldn't even look me in the eyes...she was so ashamed. And to
incorporate insult to the injury, she was wearing the dress I bought her
3 months ago on a romantic date with my ex....
6 months and BOOM, Besty is dating my ex boyfriend. I'm honestly very hurt by this and NO, Its not because I need my ex back but I feel she broke the code and she broke my heart...
Even
if She eventually asked to generally meet with me, she didn't even feel
sorry on her actions but rather, she justified what she did...she said
to me "If you're happy in your relationship, why should you care"....
I
know the proper thing to do is forgive her but I feel so much anger
towards her? do you think I'm over reacting? please I do want to know
what your readers consider this situation.
U shuldnt b hurt dear..since u now av a fresh cute guy who's a blessing 2 u..dat shuldnt burder u and wat if ȋ̝̊̅ڪ meant 2 b,u cant blame nature...D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥y culd b destined 2 b 2geda ,u mite just b a link 2 both of dem...time will tell if D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥y r meant 4 each oder or she's a snitch..move on..wat if u don't av a guY yet..it'll b a disaster..so dear move on..i pray u find a good home in him..
ReplyDeleteBaby gal move on, and u said it on your word dat, is nt dat u ar nt comfortable wit ur nw guy, isn't it? pls carry go let dem b.
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