I'm so confused on how best to advice my best friend (shes abt 19). shes been looking down for a few weeks now and has been trying to cover up yesterday i walked into her room and found her bed soaked with tears. she'd to open up.
I was so lost that i had no words to share with her. her story: shes very near her dad since she can remember and as she grew up he could enter to use the toilet and he is able to still enter her room while shes dressing, undressing like its no big deal and shes got the most effective dad on the planet i can say so cause i am aware him(hes so caring and all that).
Continue after the break.In accordance with her she sometimes sleep off in her dad's room like maybe they were jisting and it becomes so late and she is really sleepy. about 2 yrs ago she said she started noticing her father would give her longer hugs than usual or smack her bombom playfully when shes passing by or look at her burst like when she isnt wearing a bra in the home maybe at night and that his hand would rest on her bosom if he wanted to hug her like if he came back from work. but she dint feel anything was wrong, she thought since they were close it wasn't any big deal.besides its her dad. but about 2 months ago she slept off in her dad's room one night and woke up from someone touching her and she realized it had been him. she said she'd to remind him over 9 times pleading that it was wrong before his brain could calm his desires at that point in time. he later apologized and informed her he could not hurt her and had already started seeing a psychologist about his attraction to her. he also informed her to help keep it far from his wife so their blissful home can remain blissful. my question.
Can it be actually normal for a few men to have attracted to their growing teenage daughters?
Secondly whats her behavior towards him meant to be like? can it be he needs help and she should view it as a result or he must be handled?
also she wants to learn how she can try to behave normal want it never happened since he has begun seeking help over the unlawful desire.
How can she stop him from wanting her and what if she actually gets Molested? what should she do? i am aware her mum knows they are so close but expecting such from him is unbelievable. it sounded like she was lying in my experience because that guy seems too good. but its true
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