My man says he'll only marry me if I agree to stop wearing weaves. Pls Help

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After eleven months together, my boyfriend said recently that the sole reason he hasn't proposed if you ask me is because of my weaves, he couldn't spend the remainder of his life with a lady who wears wigs and weaves. He says he wants his wife to only carry her natural hair and nothing else, so this can be a deal breaker for us. He says once I make him that promise he'll propose if you ask me and I will start making wedding plans. I'm worried for just two reasons; I enjoy my weaves and I don't know if I could exist without them and 2, a person who's adamant on having his way and doesn't want to reason as well as compromise can be a huge problem later in the marriage. But I love him and desire to marry him, I simply don't know what direction to go about his ultimatum. Please help!

Dearest OOB Readers: Is marriage worth it?

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I recently turned 25 year old two days ago. And as usual my mum will call me up and pray for me personally and tell me how old I'm and meaning that I should  get married. Growing up, I've always thought I'll find an ideal Soul mate that will always love me. But as I have become older, I've come to understand that this won't happen. There's no man that won't wind up cheating you or in certain case, show off domestic violence. I have observed plenty of families proceed through either or both. I dont think I envy my friends getting married. I'm just starting to doubt if I should get married at all. Is it necessary? I am aware we're in Nigeria and that is frowned upon but I want sincere answers. Is marriage worthwhile? 

Dearest Omo Oodua Readers: I'd 5 abortions for him, now I may be barren, Pls help

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 I dated this nincompoop for four years and in  that four years, I'd five abortions for him. The final abortion was particularly traumatic. We broke up four years ago and in just a year he was married to someone else. He has two kids along with his wife who is a co-worker he cheated on me with. I moved up with my entire life and fortunately met a good guy in 2012. I married him in early 2013 and one year later I haven't gotten pregnant yet. I went to see a doctor in December last year and after carrying out tests he asked me if I'd ever had an abortion. 

Dearest Omo Oodua readers: My boyfriend beats me with wire after I gave him a dirty slap as usual.

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I'm a 19 year lady that has been in a relationship for 8 months with my boo, who is 34 years old. Every time my boo and I have a heated argument, I usually  slap him and he then would apologize in to me, we'll then have make-up s-ex. It is the most effective time to make s-ex, sound right tinz. But 2 days ago he and I had our regular fights at his friends party because he wanted to collect one stu*pid girl's number. So while we were arguing, I slapped him before his friends and he didn't do anything till we got home.

Dearest Omo Oodua readers: My Wife is wetting our bed. Pls help

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Dear Readers,
The situation is so embarrassing that she wears diapers to sleep. She blames it on the 3 kids we have but I do not believe this. True she wasn't like this when we got married, initially she wet the bed the 1st week we discovered she was pregnant with the first child. I am unable to even tell my parent since they're not partial to her and asking them for help will only make them hate her. I've advised her to go and see the Doctor but she says as long as she is able to get up two times through the night she will undoubtedly be fine. It affects our sexual life because I only see her as a bed wetter. I love her please help me!

Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: My new boss is my wife's ex (Pls Help)

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I recently found out that my new boss is the man my wife dumped a few years ago to marry me. The man was likely to marry her and saw her through her university days financially and also supported her family. We met during our NYSC, fell in love and got married shortly after. My woman handled the discharging of her ex codedly. Now 4 years into our marriage, there's a big issue. I recently got this excellent job and my direct boss is actually the man my wife dumped for me.

He knows who I'm when he confronted me when my wife left him for me personally, but since I started this job, he hasn't said anything to me but I noticed he excludes me from all of the activities that concern staff and I suspect he's wanting to sabotage me. He hasn't done anything yet, I'm just worried he has bad plans for me. Should I quit or should I wait to see what he's up to? I do not  look forward to going to work at all.

Help me Pls ! My Lover Appears To Hate My Family but says she Loves Me

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I was directed to this platform when I searched on "Best way to handle a stubborn wife" on the net, I decided to write a new post because I do really need all the sincere advise I can get from you all not just a passing comment please. I am 38 years old and my wife is 30 years old, I met and married my wife after just six months of courtship, the marriage is four years old and is blessed with two beautiful  kids, I'm a civil servant and she is self employed, we stays in one bed room apartment. Continue

I Don’t Know Whose Sper*m Got Me Pregnant: My Husband Or My Boyfriend? Pls help

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Mother Of Quadruplets Needs Help In Abuja

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Abuja -- A mother-of five who delivered quadruplets last year has pleaded with the authorities and well-meaning Nigerians for help. Mrs. Alice Akor gave birth to the four babies on April 23, 2013 at the National Hospital in Abuja, and her family has been struggling to help make the ends meet ever
since.

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Nollywood Chike Bryan Needs urgent support to stay alive: Kidney Transplant - Help !!!

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That is no cheering news for Nollywood practitioners as President of the Script Writers Guild, Mr. Chike Bryan happens to be down with kidney related ailment and needs urgent support to stay alive.

HVP learnt that the soft -spoken guild head was basically admitted at
Isolo General Hospital before he was later referred to Igando General Hospital, Lagos, where better machines for dialysis are available.

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Should I try to find this out or continúe to be happy with the other partner. Help

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Please do not give my name……& hellip ;.I've experienced a relationship for 12 yrs and married 9 yrs to a pretty decent man. Until recently we've had a very good run. Heres the problem his so called bestfriend has managed to basically destroy everything between us , we're currently seperated because he has been caught numerous times in compromising issues. Its got so bad i recently asked him to leave. He was gone for a couple months and im told he has a baby with this particular chick! That crushed me however it got worse when I find out its his bestfris niece. It took me about 6 months simply to CRT when I saw him. Recently I ran into a youth friend and we started goin out, taking tríps, spending many time together. Long story my husband discovered and flipped! Im simply not understanding whats the difference when he started this mess. Should I try to work this out or should I continúe to be pleased with the person who makes me anule and feel loved again. Signed, I recently happiness

My best friend's Dad Is Attracted To Her – Pls Help !!

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I'm so confused on how best to advice my best friend (shes abt 19). shes been looking down for a few weeks now and has been trying to cover up yesterday i walked into her room and found her bed soaked with tears. she'd to open up.

I was so lost that i had no words to share with her. her story: shes very near her dad since she can remember and as she grew up he could enter to use the toilet and he is able to still enter her room while shes dressing, undressing like its no big deal and shes got the most effective dad on the planet i can say so cause i am aware him(hes so caring and all that).

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I'am Pregnant For My Step Father – Please I need Help

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Nancy’s father died in a ghastly motor accident when she was barely two months old. His photographs were always with her but she never knew him. She prodded her mother endlessly to tell her stories about her father and was never tired hearing the same thing over and again.

Anytime she saw her friends with their fathers, she was sad and longed for that person she
could refer to as a father. Along the line, she gained admission into a polytechnic to study accountancy.

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HELP: Her mouth smells like a rotten egg! How do I tell her ?

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A Reader just sent this to us for help.

I have now been with my GF for 3 months now..she is really cute and loaded but i've 1 major problem with her, she's bad mouth odour(halitosis)..sometimes whenever we cuddle and she talks to me, I have to be holding my breath at intervals and seriously,i can't get it done anymore. i'm i would hurt her easily tell her that her mouth stinks.

pls will there be any other way I could tell her without necessarily telling her straight.trust me i've tried the method of giving her gifts of mouthwash and mint sweets… You Advice plz

Lady Forced to deliver her baby On The Ground Outside Clinic after Being Denied Help [Photo]

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An indigenous woman gave birth on a Mexican hospital lawn earlier this month after being denied help in the clinic in a tale making global headlines. Her newborn still bound by the umbilical cord and lying on a lawn, the shocking image has horrified millions as a result of where and how it took place.

The girl had been refused help in the medical clinic right before this occurred, which struck a nerve in a country where inequity remains pervasive. The mother, Irma Lopez, 29, said she was turned away by a nurse who said that she was just eight months pregnant and “still not ready” to deliver.

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Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: I Am Tired Of All This!! I Need Serious Help!

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 I need some advice from people. Thanks in advance. Im 23 years old guy, my girlfriend is 21 years old. We dating close to 1 years now. From the beginning our relationship was so nice, she was so sweet and good. My parents and my friends like her so much. But getting to last mounth evrything change. My girlfriend become very rude. she is insults me even in the present of my friends. when she cames to my house. she always switching of her fone, only God knows why. she does not believe anything i tell her. she keeps telling me i have other girlfriends. I am tire of all these. Should i leave her?

Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: Help …. How to Deal With My Girlfriend’s Ex ?

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Is it okay for your girlfriend to be close and constantly in touch with her ex? My girlfriend tells me that her ex calls her every day. And he wants her back. But She assures me not to worry that she’s over him. I trust her But I dont want to take chances. I don’t want to sound jealous and overprotective but at the same time I don’t want to sit back while someone Will snatch my girlfriend. I really Will like your opinions on this. Thanks.

Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: I Am In Love With My Brother, I Don’t Know What To Do - PLS HELP!!

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Me and my younger brother have always been close, he’s 18, I’m 20 and recently we’ve seen our relationship blossom.

I wish I were trolling, that what I’m about to tell you is a lie – but it’s not, please don’t judge me.

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Pastor Disguised as homeless to his Church and Members Refused To Help

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When people were growing up in the 80s , the church is where you go when you need help, love and any and every kind of assistance. Guess what? You'll get the attention of the big people (Pastors and assistance) as that is their purpose - to help the vulnerable and needy, Ọmọ Oódua observed.
But what do we get these days? Pastors competing with themselves over who has the best suits, the best cars and, in recent times, who enjoy more beautiful girls in the "Pastoral Cure Unit". Now the mess has spread to church members, many are living the artificial life rather than be of help to their neighbour.

Below is what happened to this pastor who disguised as a destitute to his church:

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Funny Photos: Lion Stuck in a Tree gets help from his Brother (PHOTOS)

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1 day a lion wanted a wonderful relaxing nap in the shade and found a tree to climb. However, the scaredy cat climbed a tad too high and needed the help of his older brother to get down. Both pictured lions, named Echo and Etosha, are the residents of Zimbabwe's Antelope Park. In accordance with a photo agency which provided the photos, that one was not a stereotypical lion fight, it is truly a more extreme exemplory instance of a cat getting stuck in a tree... 

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