Dearest Omo Oodua Readers: I'd 5 abortions for him, now I may be barren, Pls help

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 I dated this nincompoop for four years and in  that four years, I'd five abortions for him. The final abortion was particularly traumatic. We broke up four years ago and in just a year he was married to someone else. He has two kids along with his wife who is a co-worker he cheated on me with. I moved up with my entire life and fortunately met a good guy in 2012. I married him in early 2013 and one year later I haven't gotten pregnant yet. I went to see a doctor in December last year and after carrying out tests he asked me if I'd ever had an abortion. 

Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: I Am Scared To Tell My Fiance Of All The Abortions I Had In The Past

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There's this man I'm engaged to. Once we met, we told each other our pasts. Unknown to him, I didn't tell him all – I omitted my deepest secrets, the series of abortions I'd proceed through from the comfort of my college days. Personally i think insecure with him as he sees abortion as a horrible act and he even talks about the way he condemned his friend's gf that had the method recently. Now, I'm in a dilemma….I don't want to reduce him, I don't want to share with him, but Personally i think uneasy with him because I'm keeping him in the dark. What should I actually do?

O.M.

" I know the way reluctant you can take opening around spouses about the wrong done in the past. However, it could be another sad story if he hears it from another party. It is advisable to be honest and open in our relationships, let the cat out from the bag. His initial reactions wouldn't be favourable, but eventually, he should relax, go over it and start to see the brighter side of the relationship."

O.K