My husband's notion of a birthday treat for me was to take me to a s-éx club, where he picked up a man for a thrée-some. I've repeatedly told him I don't wish to have s-éx with anyone else but he tells me I'm the luckiest wife alive as no other husband would encourage his wife to have s-éx with other men.
We were both within our late twenties once we married 15 years ago. We've always had a really active s-éx life but he's become increasingly hard to please. I had no problem with him watching pórn or dressing up for him, but he then started speaing frankly about having a thréesome with another woman to túrn him ón.