Dearest Ọmọ Oódua readers: I'm dating three women, help me pick one to marry

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My fellow readers I'm in a dilemma and I need your help. I'm currently dating three ladies; one I've been dating since 2007, we have a child together and she's a really good woman but I'm beginning to find her boring. She acts more like my mother than my girlfriend. The second one I've been dating since 2010. I met her when my first girlfriend and I were taking a break after our child was born. After we got back together, my relationship with the second lady continued. She's from a rich home and spoils me silly but I find her too controlling and too jealous. The third girl I met via Facebook just last year. She lives in Canada and wants me to join her there. I love these women differently and I was going to play around for a few more years but they are all now insisting on marriage. The problem is I don't know which one to propose to. Should I pick the woman who has been with me the longest and has a child for me, or the lady who has a lot of money and can give me an easy life or the one in Canada who doesn't give me drama like the other two? Help me, please.!

Dear Ọmọ Oódua readers: I can't stand my wife anymore; should I stay or go?

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"I found out my wife of 11 years cheated on me with some guy. This was last year June. She confessed to me after I confronted her with the facts. I decided to forgive her and stay married to her because I have cheated on her in the past too and I didn't want to destroy our family because we have four small children together. The thing now is; I don't love her anymore. I can't stand her and can't even bare to touch her. When she talks to me I get so angry I feel like stabbing her in the eye but I've never laid hands on her. I don't talk to her much except when we want to talk about the kids. We live in the same house but as strangers. She's really tried to make it up but it's not working. I actually hate it when she's around me, and haven't touched her since I found out about the cheating

I thought my anger and disgust at her would fade with time but it's been 9 months and I still feel this way. Will this anger ever go away or should I just end things with her?

Dear Ọmọ Oódua readers: How do I get Completely slim legs?

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Please how do l get slim legs? From my waist upward is slim but my legs are fat and its really affecting me. Not only is it embarrassing to me, but I can't wear what I want to wear and my husband is now complaining about it. Please is there anyone out there who can help me?

Dear Beloved Ọmọ Oódua Readers: My skin crawls when My Hubby Touches me ( Help )

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I need honest and constructive advice from my Beloved Ọmọ Oódua Readers. I have been married for a little over a year now. In the earlier years of our relationship, it seemed as though we shared similar values (still does sometimes) but must importantly, even though I loved him desperately, I knew he loved me even more. Barely a couple of months into our marriage, I fell pregnant. Though it was a fairly easy pregnancy compared to most other horrible experiences I've come across, I was left with zero sex drive. I'd always be quite fit and beautiful but the pregnancy made me feel permanently ill and unattractive and this affected my desire for sex. Despite this, I kept at it knowing fully well that there was another person with needs and desires to be met. Sex stopped being as frequent as before - but it was there.

Between then and now, my husband has become a serial cheat. Keeping late nights everyday with all sorts of women calling even when he finally gets home by 2am.

Dear Ọmọ Oódua Readers: Is it OK to get naked in front of my teenage brother?

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From  Ọmọ Oódua Reader

A friend of mine has asked me to stop it but I don't see anything wrong in it. I am in my early 20's and my younger brother is only 14. What's wrong in getting undressed in front of him? Should I stop it?

 

Dear Ọmọ Oódua Readers: Birth Control Is Not Working For Me (Advice Pls)

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My husband looked at me last night and said 'this is a new year, the day you deny me of sex again will mark the end of our marriage.'

Let me go back to how my husband and I got here. I have four kids. The initial plan was for us to have just two. The third child was unplanned. And just seven months after I gave birth to my third child I became pregnant again though I was on birth control. My last pregnancy made me so depressed that I contemplated having an abortion several times. My doctor talked me out of it.