Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: How do I get my money back from my ex?

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My ex and I dated for 36 months and were actually likely to wed. We got engaged April last year but due to family issues the marriage was called off in November 2012. Despite the conclusion of our engagement, we kept seeing each other on and off for almost a year until we finally separated in August.

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Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: My Boyfriend's wife is my new boss, should I be worried? Advice Pls

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I took a career recently and realized my immediate boss is my married boyfriend's wife. I've had confrontations with this lady up to now, so imagine my shock at learning she's my new boss. Nevertheless weirdest thing is, since I joined the company, she hasn't acted like we know each other well from the past. I'm worried. So my question for you is this; should I also do like all is well and pretend like I don't know this woman, or should I carry on, leave the company and look for work elsewhere? Inr respect to the man we both of us share, I don't see us ever breaking up.. & and my work enviroment is a place anyone would even wish to be hired as a staff. Please advice..

Dearest Ọmọ Oódua readers: Is it OK for my ex BF to date my sister?

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     I dated my ex to the level he asked to marry me, but whenever we went for genotype tests, we both tested AS. and that was where the entire relationship came to a stop. We tried to wave it aside, however it wasn't possible, considering the future.  We never had s-ex whilst in the relationship but we kissed and we felt strongly for every other.We have managed to move on, or would I say, I've managed to move on, cos am dating now, but he is not dating yet. My ex is so nice and am asking him to begin a relationship with my sister and see if it should go far, since we didn't have se-x. Please I'd wanna seek readers opinion on this. Could it be weird?

3 Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers of the 2nd Week + Final recharge Card Nominee List

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2 Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers of the 1st Week + Final recharge Card Nominee List

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2 Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers of the 1st Week (1st- 7th of oct):

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Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: I Am Tired Of All This!! I Need Serious Help!

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 I need some advice from people. Thanks in advance. Im 23 years old guy, my girlfriend is 21 years old. We dating close to 1 years now. From the beginning our relationship was so nice, she was so sweet and good. My parents and my friends like her so much. But getting to last mounth evrything change. My girlfriend become very rude. she is insults me even in the present of my friends. when she cames to my house. she always switching of her fone, only God knows why. she does not believe anything i tell her. she keeps telling me i have other girlfriends. I am tire of all these. Should i leave her?

Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: Help …. How to Deal With My Girlfriend’s Ex ?

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Is it okay for your girlfriend to be close and constantly in touch with her ex? My girlfriend tells me that her ex calls her every day. And he wants her back. But She assures me not to worry that she’s over him. I trust her But I dont want to take chances. I don’t want to sound jealous and overprotective but at the same time I don’t want to sit back while someone Will snatch my girlfriend. I really Will like your opinions on this. Thanks.

Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: I Am In Love With My Brother, I Don’t Know What To Do - PLS HELP!!

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Me and my younger brother have always been close, he’s 18, I’m 20 and recently we’ve seen our relationship blossom.

I wish I were trolling, that what I’m about to tell you is a lie – but it’s not, please don’t judge me.

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Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: I used my best friend to set up my Fiancee … What should I do?

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I am name is RoseMary, I used my best friend to set up my Fiancee in order to see if he will cheat on me. Men are so heartless, they change like weather.
Now, My Best friend betrayed me and is now set to marry my fiancee, they have even sent me their wedding invitation.
I’m so devastated now…what should I do??
(Crying)

Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: ''I Am Stuck Between My Best Friend And My Boyfriend " -- PLS HELP!

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Hello people,

 Sorry for the long mail, I am an only child and I have no one to talk to.Will appreciate sincere response from you and your readers of which I am one..... most especially Bloglord,wide eyed,Fucknizer and all the other correct people and anonymous'.

Its my 23rd birthday in some weeks, I have done quite well for myself and preparing for masters thanks to God. But i feel im too young for marriage until the next year or two when i must have settled into life fully. My 4 year relationship with my 32 year old boyfriend ended some months ago and amazingly I don't really know what I feel even though he has been making efforts to reconcile with me.

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Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: How do I leave one brother for another?

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This is not a made up story believe me. For over two years I was constantly praying to meet my dream man and it finally happened but it happened in the most bizarre manner. I met this really nice looking dude at shoprite Lagos about a month ago and I really liked him and was considering dating him but then he invited him to his friend's child naming ceremony just last week and I met his older brother. His older brother is my dream man. Since I met him I haven't been able to stop thinking about him. The worst or best part is that he is single and was even telling me to hook him with any single female friend of mine. How do I tell this guy I am

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Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers:"I Did Abortion For The Man My Sister Is About To Marry, Should I Tell" Please Help!!!

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My name is Amanda, 
A 30-year old single lady working in a bank in one of the Nigeria's famous cities. About three years ago, I had a brief affair with a young and good-looking man. He is 4years older than me and works in an oil company. We actually met while I was in the marketing department of my organization. 

Before long, we started seeing each other and even spent nights at each other's place. I had great affection for him and he was a real gentleman with nice qualities. However, the relationship lasted only five months and it ended after I carried out an abortion because according to him, he had no plans to settle down at that point. I felt used, dumped and couldn't bear the pain any longer so I broke up with him.

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Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: Should I warn my ex?

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I need impartial advice from your readers please. I am a female who has been involved in a long distance relationship with a man in Nigeria, I live abroad. I have visited him over there and he has visited me here. However, I have always suspected there was a personal relationship between him and his female business partner, who is older than him and married too.

I even saw text messages on his phone from her, messages only a lover will send, but he denies any wrong-doing and says there is nothing personal going on between them.

This older woman lost her husband 7 months ago, and with me not being around, I believe their affair intensified over time. I had an encounter recently with this lady and I decided the guy was not worth my time so I ended things between us. I have cried and prayed a lot since then and one thing keeps coming to me, that he is under the influence of some kind of evil power of this woman's doing.

I want nothing more to do with the guy, I can never get back with someone that sleeps with another man's wife, but I feel like I need to warn him about this woman.

Should I say something or should I leave him to bear his cross?

Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: I love my fiance but I hate his family

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I'm engaged to a really nice man but I'm considering calling off the engagement because I hate his family. He's from among the prominent rich families in Lagos and they're of the worst breed. They're controlling, they do not mind their business, they tell their children what to do, they make their decisions for them and their matriarch is the opinion of the family.

Nobody dares question her decisions or argues with her. My fiance's sister said I have to stop my job after I marry to their family. My future mother-in-law has summoned my dad to her home on several occasions, asking him the absolute most belittling questions. She even had their family doctor examine me, and the doctor asked me exactly how many men I've been with in the past and if I've ever had an abortion. 

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Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: I'm 20 years old and pregnant for a married man

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I am a 20 year old woman living in the UK and also studying here. My parents have been at war since I can remember and I have to rely on my siblings to take care of me, I am reluctant to ask them though as everyone works hard and times are difficult.

I have had my fair share of horrible boyfriends in the past few years, I have dated so many stingy men that would not give me a penny but I am usually not bothered about this as I don't date men because of their money. I have although since decided to remain single and just have the usual one night stand because I am tired of the constant heartbreak and pain. Until recently.

I recently got introduced to a married man and the initial plan was to have him spend on me, I didn't want to but as I was about to be kicked out of my flat for lack of payments I did what I had to. I wasn't going to go any further with him but he turned out to be really nice. I tried to cut contact with him but unfortunately he had fallen head over heels in love with me. If he doesn't see me or hear from me in an hour he becomes frantic and agitated. He tells all his friends here in the Uk about me, takes me to their houses and introduces me as his girlfriend.

Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: How Can I Get Out Of This Marriage? My Husband Sleéps With Women Even In His Car

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I met my husband in a fast food joint some years back, and while we were dating i never knew him to be into women before we married. We had some hiccups as in the family members including the mum did not like me as such. But we went on to fix date and got knot up.

 

After marriage, a week after, women started calling him, and at one point i decided to hide my number to call one of them, and found out that, he was into women a lot. So this now became so pronounced that most times, he does not sléep at home...

He is a military man though, and he brings women and sleéps with them in the [military] base. His friends knew all of these, and when I confront them because they knew what he is into they will just say they would talk to him. 

Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: Should I Disclose My Earnings With My Boyfriend?

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This question has been bothering my heart for a while now. Is it proper to tell your boyfriend/spouse what you earn and to let him know the moment your salary is being paid, especially when he is also open to you about his earnings and any income that comes to him? No insults please, just need your mature views on this for us to learn.

Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: Do I sit home & have all my kids before going back to work? ( Answer Pls )

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I am a lawyer who had a baby last year and I have been at home since. I decided to go back to work since my baby started walking and my husband suggested I stay and have all my kids, nurse them till they can all start school before going back to work. The problem with this is as a lawyer new laws, rules and codes keep coming up and I am scared I won't meet up after like five years at home. Also, my self esteem is slowly fading away. Please I want advice from the women. What do I do?

Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: I Want To Get Married, So I Told Him Its Now Or Never And He Said Never

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I recently read the article where the writer said, “He says he’s unhappy, but I can’t let him go, he’s my world.”

I’m struggling with what I fear is a similar issue. My boyfriend of two years says he loves me and wants to marry me and have children, but every time we discuss marriage he brings up problems and says he’s not happy. Finally, I put my foot down and gave the ultimatum, “now or never.” He chose never.

After discussing his choice he recanted and decided we should go to couples counseling. He is a good man and we are happy as long as we don’t discuss marriage. But, I want to be married and have another child! I have a son from a previous marriage and he treats my son like his own, worse my son is completely attached to him and when we temporarily broke things off my young son was in tears for days.

Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers:I cheated on my husband and I plan to continue

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I have been the angry, unsatisfied and bitter wife for the last nine years. I'm married to a man who has absolutely no respect for the marriage institution. He has had more girlfriends than I have changed my hair since we got married. He started cheating on me months after our wedding in 2004 when I was pregnant. And it hasn't stopped ever since. Every other day a different girl, a different situation, a lot of drama. Initially he would lie or try to cover up when I ask him questions or catch him but now he tells me to go to hell and leave the marriage if I was no longer satisfied.