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I Had S3x With A Dead Girl's Spirit! {1}

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S3x-with-ghost stories are bandied around a lot, especially in religious circles where spiritual wives and husbands are blamed. But is it fiction or fact?


We hear tales of women having s3x with spiritual husbands. Also, I've heard tales of guys having wet dreams that end with them having semen all over their ball...from the dreamworld!
Now one cannot but wonder if it is true that you can actually have s3x with a spirit and feel it physically...
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Dearest OOB Readers: I'm losing my man because of my inability to have 0rgasm

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This is from a OOB (Omo Oodua Blog) reader-

"I and my man have now been dating for quite a while now. We've great s3x but the situation now's that I can't have an 0rgasm. He's not satisfied with it and sent me an email saying''how can I be with a lady I can't satisfy?' '. Please so what can I actually do? Even though I attempt to pretend to cum he notices. I'm so weak & worried. And yes I was circumcised. I want advice please I don't want to reduce my man

For Earning less, My ex left me for another woman. Help

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My ex-boyfriend and I'd a discussion yesterday about the reason why he dumped me four years back to marry another girl he'd started dating about 2 yrs directly after we started dating. My ex and I began dating in 2008, but by early 2010 he met another woman who he married nine months later. He split up with me just four months ahead of the wedding. I was so hurt and devastated that for four years I wouldn't give another man a chance. I didn't have closure because I was tormented by why he chose another woman over me. Eventually we'd the conversation yesterday directly after we met at a mutual friend's wedding on Saturday. What he said was shocking. He explained he loved me more but made a decision to marry one other lady because she earned significantly more than I did. I was earning ₦85k during the time as the lady was earning ₦250k. He figured an additional ₦165k was enough reason to marry her. How is this even reasons to marry? Are some men this small minded? Is this an authentic reason or he just said it to throw me off? I needed closure but it's made me more confused.

Should I cover my husband's sin?

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I have been married for 10+ years and thought I was happily married till some weeks ago. From the fourth year into my marriage my mom advised us to take on 2 female relatives. One was 22 and the other 13 at that time. In 2010, we noticed that the older of the girls had become so close to my husband to the point that anyone could easily conclude they were intimate. She became rude to me but got closer to my husband and he never saw anything wrong with her attitude. He would take her to school (UNILAG) and pick her up regularly. He would gladly buy the exact items for her and myself whenever he traveled. Several times he gave her large sums without my consent or knowledge but thankfully it all came out through her mom. ...

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Dearest Omo Oodua Readers: Your help is needed urgently !

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I'm a regular blog visitor, my boyfriend is one of your biggest fans. Please I need blog readers' advice on something that is threatening to end my relationship with him.   I am a final year student of one of the federal schools in Nigeria. I met my boyfriend three years ago, he's working in one of the telecommunication companies in Nigeria. We have been really happy with each other until my final year, he started with constantly accusing me of valuing my friends in school over him. Then he moved to me dating one of my male friends that I have been friends with since my first year in school!  

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I'm Pregnant for Hubby's Son - Please help

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I'm 35 years of age and I've been married for days gone by 17 years.  For 17 years I've been praying for the fruit of the womb. My husband and I have been to different hospitals for medical check to no avail. The doctors kept saying we're both fertile (meaning we could both make babies). I married my husband while i was 18 years of age and still a virgin. My husband is definitely there for me personally in everything; understanding and supportive during our trying times. 

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Dearest Omo Oodua Readers: I'd four abortions for my man without telling him

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Hi Readers, I'm 27 years of age and I've been dating a married man for 3 years. And for the 3 years I've had 4 abortions, which I never told my boyfriend about, so in his heart of hearts he thinks I've been careful hence no pregnancy palava for him. I believe that's the primary reason he loves me so much and he's taking proper care of me. 

Just learned 2-3 weeks back that I was pregnant again, I've begged God to avoid giving me these pregnancies until I'm ready, Cos I'm fed up with aborting.

So he stumbled on my house as usual and for the first time ever I told him about my current pregnancy. 
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Dearest Omo Oodua Readers: Could the Baby she's carrying be mine? Pls advice

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My girlfriend and I broke up just 4 months ago in April and I found out she got married this past weekend.  During the time we were dating, she kept asking me to marry her. In reality that has been the reason why she separated with me when I told her I wasn't ready to be settle down. We're both 28.
I was surprised at how quickly she'd found somebody else when I heard she was getting married in Asaba on Saturday limited to me to see the marriage photos and see she's heavily pregnant.
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I Can’t Marry Her Because She Is Too Submissive For My Liking - I Need Advice

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As blogs now offer some of us the opportunity to open up and share our pains, I thought it would be a great idea to share a pain that is making me go bananas at the moment.

My parents practically forced my girlfriend on me about four years ago because they saw and still see her as a girl that is well-brought up. No doubt she is every inch a wife material, but not the one for me though. My take on it is that she is too submissive and hardly ever argues with me since we have been dating. She concurs with everything I do, and the more reason I sometimes worry about both of us having a future together.

Dearest Omo Oodua readers: My husband is already cheating three weeks after our wedding

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"I can't speak with anyone. I'm still in shock. I woke up to use the bathroom and my husband's phone was buzzing about 11pm. He was fast asleep as I picked his phone and saw nude pictures of a girl named Tolu who lives in Akure. Apparently he has been begging her to send pictures saying simply how much he misses her and calling her same pet names he calls me. Personally i think like I need a divorce already. I don't think I can ever let him touch me again. Just how do I handle or work through this? Does any one have a cheating husband? Does this get worse? I'm loosing my mind, please advise...

Dearest Omo Oodua readers: why do some women think it is difficult to help in the house?

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I have now been married for one year and a half and my marriage isn't what I believed it'd be. My partner does nothing like to contribute financially in the home. Considering that I earn more income than she does, but it's not an offense to simply help out with little things. Sometimes I come home to no food or food without meet or fish and when I ask her she says I didn't drop any money before leaving. Sometimes I come home from work very tired and there's no light. When I ask her what happened to the generator, she informs me there's no fuel. So she can't buy fuel? I've to do everything? She says her money is hers alone and to simply help her family but she keeps forgetting that I and our daughter ought to be her priority.

What can I do to make her change her ways? I'm not asking her to do much, just little things like buy the chicken or fish for stew and soup, and fuel sometimes when I'm not home. And maybe soap, toothpaste, pure-water, salt, maggi, and onions?

Interested Or Not: How To Read Body Language

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Trying to figure out whether a guy is interested in you or not just got easier. One of the most telling signs that a guy is interested doesn’t come from him actually saying those words, it’s the way his face looks and the way his body is positioned around yours. If you’re wondering whether the guy at the end of the bar is interested or not, all you have to do is watch the way his body moves. We got the expert advice on how to read body language, from moves men make when they’re interested to what to watch for when they’re not.

5 Needs Your Man May Not Be Sharing With You

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My husband is a pretty low-key dude, and I respect that. You will rarely see pictures of him on my social media networks, simply because he’s not really into social media. It’s just not his thing. His low-key attitude, however, is pretty consistent. He doesn’t say too much unless he really has something to say, and I suspect that sharing his feelings and emotions is not his favorite thing to do.

My Hubby demands I remove my maiden title from my title

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I've been married for seven months now and I'm bearing my husband's name alongside my father's name. My husband doesn't like it and is insisting I bear his name only and remove my father's name but that's hard for me because I've used my father's name professionally for over ten years and that's the name everyone knows. Why can't a woman retain her maiden name after marriage? What do I do, he's really insisting. 

4 Signs You Are Being Used

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There could be nothing more frustrating and heartbreaking than discovering those that purportedly professed their'love'to us, and we reciprocating inturn, are exactly the same ones that took our love for granted and played with this emotions like it's some worthless toy.

In order to avoid finding yourself in such an unpleasant situation, here are four signs that might assist you to detect earlier if you are used or manipulated by your partner.

Should I Tell My Ex-Boyfriend That I Want Him Back?

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Hello people, just came across this site and thot you guys might be able to help me. My ex boyfriend and I broke up a few months ago. He actually said we should break up and even though i understood where he was coming from(we had drifted apart), i was very hurt. Recently, just when i thought i was getting over him, i’ve started thinking about him alot. I really do miss him. We don’t live in the same town and yesterday i came up with a plan. I would outlinethe plan below but i need u guys to tell me whether i should carry out the plan. Or maybe some of u(esp guys) can tell me what to do. Thanks.

Plan: Go to his town, he’ll know am coming but he won’t know its just to see him. Tell him how i feel but stop short of asking him that we should get back together. Tell him i don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with me but i felt the need to let him know how i feel. Then tell him i came from my town to tell him that and pack my load and leave. What do you guys think? Should i tell him or keep it to myself?

For the guys: What would you think if an ex told you how she felt?

Thanks for your help.

Ten Facts About Masturb*tion They Don’t Want You To Know

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I do not expect that this article will change anyone’s mind about anything. I do feel that someone ought to speak out about this thorny subject and present clear facts and info about it for the benefit of those who have been harassed and made to feel less than human because they mas'tu'rbate.

What Is Mastu'rbation?

Mastu'rbation is the se'xual stimulation of one’s own genitals, usually to the point of orgasm. The stimulation can be performed using the hands, fingers, everyday objects, or dedicated se'x toys. I lifted that definition right off Wikipedia, as it is an accurate description and I do not feel compelled to reinvent the wheel.

+18 +++ Post: Ladies, Check Out How to Win 'His Heart' in The Bedroom

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1. Outside the room
Being the best isn’t only about what you do in bed, but also what you do out of bed. For a steamy night, start by spicing things up outside the bedroom. When he’s at work, text him a naughty message that will drop a hint about what he should expect when he gets home or go out for a romantic dinner. 

Dearest Omo Oodua Readers: I met the love of my life one week after I got engaged. Pls help.

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I gave my girlfriend of two & a half years an engagement ring and a week later I met the girl of my dreams who's single and enthusiastic about having a relationship with me. How do I break things off with my girl without breaking her heart? I'm convinced without the iota of doubt that new girl is 'The One'. What would you advise? Why did I get engaged when I wasn't sure? Pressure! Some guys know very well what I mean...