Pastor is Envious of me. Please Help

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I am a member of one of the most populated Pentecostal churches in the world.

During festive periods (or close to festive periods), parishes are usually planted. I was transferred in this programme (not up to 3 years now) and the pastor of this supposed new parish, lobbied my transfer to his parish (ignoring whether it was comfortable to me or NOT). Initially, my GOD warned me about following this man in his vehicle (cos I think that's where the boldness of  the lobby of my transfer came), but when the transfer came, my mind told me to obey, which I did (little did I know that I am going to another school of life. Hmmm). I head a department, and GOD has been increasing my department (little did I know that my pastor is becoming so envious of me abi?).

Dearest OOB Readers: I don't Understand myself anymore. Advice Needed Pls!!

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I'm a man age 24 doing my Masters in the United Kingdom. For the sake of confidentiality you may call me Ben. I reside in a flat consisting of 4 males with their respective rooms.  

One is definitely an elder and he's accountable for my admission here. He influenced my parents to have me to study here. He also assisted in  loaning some part of my tuition in order to bring me here (UK). This plan of action took two year to be performed including my final year and my NYSC.
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Dearest OOB Readers: I'm losing my man because of my inability to have 0rgasm

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This is from a OOB (Omo Oodua Blog) reader-

"I and my man have now been dating for quite a while now. We've great s3x but the situation now's that I can't have an 0rgasm. He's not satisfied with it and sent me an email saying''how can I be with a lady I can't satisfy?' '. Please so what can I actually do? Even though I attempt to pretend to cum he notices. I'm so weak & worried. And yes I was circumcised. I want advice please I don't want to reduce my man

For Earning less, My ex left me for another woman. Help

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My ex-boyfriend and I'd a discussion yesterday about the reason why he dumped me four years back to marry another girl he'd started dating about 2 yrs directly after we started dating. My ex and I began dating in 2008, but by early 2010 he met another woman who he married nine months later. He split up with me just four months ahead of the wedding. I was so hurt and devastated that for four years I wouldn't give another man a chance. I didn't have closure because I was tormented by why he chose another woman over me. Eventually we'd the conversation yesterday directly after we met at a mutual friend's wedding on Saturday. What he said was shocking. He explained he loved me more but made a decision to marry one other lady because she earned significantly more than I did. I was earning ₦85k during the time as the lady was earning ₦250k. He figured an additional ₦165k was enough reason to marry her. How is this even reasons to marry? Are some men this small minded? Is this an authentic reason or he just said it to throw me off? I needed closure but it's made me more confused.

Dearest Omo Oodua Readers: I Rejected his Marriage Proposal; Now I Want Him to Propose Again. Help!

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Dear Omo oodua Blog Readers,
I met him this past year (2013), in the month of August precisely. I was 21 then but a graduate, in one of many media organisations and he's in his mid 30's and very comfortable. He stumbled on my office for advert and we exchanged numbers based on client level... nothing more. He later asked me out for a date... yeah.... I went.  

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Dearest Omo Oodua Readers: Your help is needed urgently !

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I'm a regular blog visitor, my boyfriend is one of your biggest fans. Please I need blog readers' advice on something that is threatening to end my relationship with him.   I am a final year student of one of the federal schools in Nigeria. I met my boyfriend three years ago, he's working in one of the telecommunication companies in Nigeria. We have been really happy with each other until my final year, he started with constantly accusing me of valuing my friends in school over him. Then he moved to me dating one of my male friends that I have been friends with since my first year in school!  

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I'm Pregnant for Hubby's Son - Please help

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I'm 35 years of age and I've been married for days gone by 17 years.  For 17 years I've been praying for the fruit of the womb. My husband and I have been to different hospitals for medical check to no avail. The doctors kept saying we're both fertile (meaning we could both make babies). I married my husband while i was 18 years of age and still a virgin. My husband is definitely there for me personally in everything; understanding and supportive during our trying times. 

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Dearest Omo Oodua: I've a higher s3xual libido, Please help..

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What's the best way to let your man know that you do not enjoy sex with him and you will need him to come up with something  or improve without offending him? I've a higher s3xual libido and I doubt I will undoubtedly be faithful to any man who can't give it if you ask me well. This is actually the man I plan to marry and I would love to be faithful but my s3xual satisfaction is essential to me. When he gives me head, he pretends to make use of his tongue when I understand it's his fingers. He's also not big on foreplay and doesn't last long. He always leaves me unsatisfied after each and every s3xual encounter. How can I let him understand without offending him? And can he even improve or is this how it will be? Na only me waka come, make I understand now to ensure that only me go begin to dey waka go

Advice needed badly Pls: At 20, I Still Bed Wet, Please How Do I Stop This?

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pee Up till now, i haven’t seen any concrete answer with prove on how to help my friend. May be i forgot to fill in that he still bed wet till date even though it’s once in a while and he’s now 22years old and that’s why i had to bring the previous post forward just in case you haven’t came across it.

I once had a friend who bed welted at the age of seventeen years old. He was taken to several doctors for help but wasn’t able to get one and of course he was taken to Churches to see pastors for prayer but all to no avail.

I'm Now Sleeping With Another Man Because Of My Husband. Please help !

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The way some men treat their wife is not good. If you know you can't cope with one wife just marry another one legitimately and stop the nasty act. Now see what a man pushed his wife into:

I have a problem and I need advice from fellow readers of your blog. I got married to my husband in the year 2011 and our marriage has been consummated with a girl child. Our marriage was working smoothly until my husband got an offshore job to work with an oil servicing firm based in port Harcourt last year June.

Please help me sort out this problem

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In a family where the husband earns N150,000 every month, and the wife earns N750,000 every month and they both work in the same company, and their kids are lacking parental care, love and discipline, who between them should resign and stay home to take care of the kids?

Dearest Omo Oodua Readers: Should I still marry her or do away with her?

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Unedited:
Met my girlfriend 5 years ago even as we both came into university together. We started dating and in our third year she got pregnant which we'd to quietly removed because we both were not prepared. Now we are both finished with NYSC and looking for better paying jobs. The thing is she developed a sickness over the last 12 months that has been financially demanding. Her parents have sold all they can so as  to keep her healthy and with the explanations from the doctors, her healing is definately not now. I really do believe in miracles but am worried if I can cope with the financial burden of her health when we get married as I'm just about to begin life myself. Am thinking if it will be a wise decision to stay and marry her or do away with her.

Dearest Omo Oodua: Please help me, my husband is Gay.

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"I was scrolling through my hubby's phone and I came across love messages between him and his boss, who is a man. At first I thought maybe he saved the name on the phone with his boss' name but it was actually him. I was so shocked and it took me a while to confront him. When I eventually confronted him about the text he said I misunderstood it. I'm not an illiterate I know what I read. We have a 2 year old son and now I'm scared to leave him alone with him. I don't want him to infect my son...worse still molest him. I don't even know what to do right now. He reads this blog, hopefully he sees this.

 I don't know what to do, any help ?