Stop risking your lives for unreal greener pasture abroad, develop your country – Briton tells Nigerian youths

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A member of Volunteer Service Overseas, Mr. Michael Young, a citizen of United Kingdom has charged Nigerian youths to stay in their country to contribute to its development instead of risking their lives searching for unreal greener pasture.

Young, who stated this along his counterpart, Miss Samuel Joy Ben during a press conference in Ilorin to mark the beginning of International Youth Day celebration in collaboration with National Youth Council of Nigeria (NYCN), Kwara State chapter, said immigrants could make it in their countries without embarking on dangerous journey.

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Domestic Violence: Beat your woman in Lagos and spend some months in jail

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There's a new Domestic Violence Law in Lagos State, and it states that if you beat your wife, you will go to Jail. It is now an offense for any man to hit his wife.

According to the deputy governor of Lagos State, Hon Joke Orelope-Adefulire, the Domestic Violence Law is made not only to protect women who are most times the target of violence in the home but also to safeguard the interest of men, children, servants, maids and everyone who may be a victim of domestic violence. 

In case of man/woman abuse issues, it does not matter whether there's a valid contracted marriage between the victim and the perpetrator of the act as long as they are living together in a home setting. Continue Reading...

How To Make Love To one Spouse For The Rest Of Your Life

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A desired marriage is not complete without adequate plan for better and fulfilled séx life. It remains a potent tool to forge lasting relationships among couples and a good one, no doubt, will certainly help prepare you to face challenges in marriage. 

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Ayesha In Quran: Will You Marry Your Seven Year old daughter to a fifty year old man ??? (Must Read)

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Was Ayesha A Six-Year-Old Bride? 

The Ancient Myth Exposed

by T.O. Shanavas 

A Christian friend asked me once,
“Will you marry your seven year old daughter to a fifty year old man?” I kept
my silence. He continued, “If you would not, how can you approve the marriage
of an innocent seven year old, Ayesha, with your Prophet?” I told him, “I
don’t have an answer to your question at this time.” My friend smiled and
left me with a thorn in the heart of my faith. Most Muslims answer that such
marriages were accepted in those days. Otherwise, people would have objected
to Prophet’s marriage with Ayesha. 

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LADIES: How healthy is it to sleep with your br-a on?

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How healthy is it to sleep with your bra on? Could it possibly cause lumps and in turn cancer? 

If you wear them to bed, give us your reasons and if you don't we need your reasons also. *winks*, and please don't ask me whether I do same or not. On a serious note, this is big health discussion. Let's rub minds! - 

Ladies, Would You Let Your Best Friend Do This To Your Husband ? ( See Photo)

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Check Out 6 Signs That Your Girlfriend May Not Be Your Future Wife

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Getting married is a life changing situation and something everybody wants to do right because nobody plans to walk down the aisle more than once…at least nobody in their right mind plans to.

If you are planning to walk down the aisle in the very near future and with the woman you are seeing and you need to be very sure she’s the one, here are qualities that if she’s got, she just might not fit into the role.

1. She’s dependent - On you for everything. When she wants to buy the smallest thing, she dials your number and asks you to buy it for her. When she wants to make any important decision, she stalls and waits till you see each other. When she needs to do things she should be able to handle on her own, she keeps waiting for you to come make the decision for her, then you need to think twice.

Nothing bad in making decisions togethter or helping her buy stuff but everything is wrong when it happens all of the time.

A wife needs to be independent. Be able to run the home when her husband isn’t home and make important decisions when he is busy.

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Question Of The Day: Can You Trust Your Best Friend With Your Partner?

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Question of the day : Can You Trust Your Best Friend With Your Partner?

Ladies: What Your Lower-Back Tattoo Really Suggest To Men

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There is a period when tattoos were the exclusive preserve of merchant marines, criminals and prisoners of war. Obviously, which was then and that is now, a period when your mother is just as likely as Slash to possess Tweety Bird indelibly stamped on her behalf bicep.

Despite their ubiquity, and a specific amount of cultural acceptance, tattoos still retain a slightly naughty reputation, which, in a few circles can signal outlier status. When you have plans, as an example, to become the CEO of a Fortune 500 company, it's not likely advisable to truly have a coiled anaconda decorating your face.

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Five Friends You Should CUT Out Of Your Life Forever

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The Flake
Cancelling at the last minute, postponing until later, promising she'll be there soon and then mysteriously not responding to texts - believe me, you'll know if you're friends with a flake. (Tip: Look in the mirror and see if your face has a resigned, world-weary expression.) Not only is the process of arranging to meet up exhausting (all those emails with subjects like Re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: Tonight!), chances are you'll be in a bad mood with her before you even see her, which kinda makes the whole thing pointless

The Oversharer
You'll know you're mates with an oversharer if every time you hear her say your name in conversation, you leg it straight over and get ready to silence her with a manicured dig in the ribs. She re-tells your stories, blabs about that night you accidentally woke up at his place wearing an elf outfit and often accuses you of being 'SO oversensitive' if you call her on it. This is one endless broadcast you could seriously do with switching off...

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Question Of The Day: How far can you go for the sake of your nearest and dearest?

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In France a 52-year-old woman sneaked into the exam room ‘dressed as a teenager’ willing to sit the end of term English exam for her daughter. She wore casual teenage clothes, namely low-waisted skinny jeans and Converse shoes. However, a sharp-eyed invigilator spotted the impostor for he knew how the 19-year-old daughter really looked like. Eventually, he called the police. The woman was arrested at the end of the exam, though, so as not to disturb other students. She was held briefly in custody and freely admitted what she had done. She said she was better at English than her daughter. The mother now faced fraud charges and a fine of up to £7,000. The daughter faced being banned from taking all public exams for five years, police said.

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Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: Guy with feminine look needs your help!

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Play along guys....let's indulge him. #straightguysdon'tposelikethat. Lol So here's a mail I got for the umpteenth time from our dear friend, Tosin. Decided to finally share it. Read...

Hi Linda, my name is Tosin Silver Damolekun, a student. I'm male but am feminine and all my life I have been labelled as gay just because of my femininity.

Even men approach me to ask me out on a date, I mean gay men. I do get anonymous calls and text messages asking me out on a date. I have been through so many sexual harassment growing up from homosexuals. It is really frustrating, not all guys that behaves like a girl or look like a girl are gay..

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6 signs your marriage will end in divorce

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Maintaining a marriage requires intentionality. Just like other relationships, if your marriage doesn't receive the necessary time and attention, it will deteriorate. Couples tend to enter marriages with great expectations, bringing both their own histories of hurt and unmet needs. The unspoken expectation that your partner will finally love you the way you desire to be loved is often a setup for failure.

Apathy and contempt in a marriage are warning signs that your marriage needs your attention, and the number one predictor of divorce is conflict avoidance. So, if you and your partner avoid conflict and lack the skills of conflict resolution, your marriage may be in jeopardy.

Dr. John Gottman, marriage & family therapist and leading researcher on marriage, has conducted studies over the span of 40 years to determine the predictors of divorce. His studies showed that these six characteristics of communication predict the likelihood of divorce with 91% accuracy.

How To Get Your Cli max Back (And Have It Be Better Than Ever)

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It can happen even in the steamiest moment — you’re on the brink of an awesome cli max … and then nada. Maybe you got distracted by a nagging thought, like stressing out over unanswered work emails, or you were thrown off when your guy suddenly changed positions. Or maybe your clim ax just kind of petered out, and you’re not completely sure why. Whatever’s going on, there are techniques you can use to get back in the zone. Allow us to talk you through.

Think of Channing Tatum.
Letting your mind go to your se xy place, wherever it is (that time you and your guy hooked up on the kitchen table, the hottie with the ridic biceps at the gym who always says hi), will get you on track for a satisfying finish. “When you fantasize, your brain sends arou sal signals throughout your body, and extra blood is directed to your privates,” says Gail Saltz, M.D., author of 

Hot Exclusive Gist: Nigerian Female Artiste Pays ₦13,451,255.75 ($85,000) For Angelina Jolie Lips !!!

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The Lifestyle of entertainers in Nigeria, has massively taken a new turn.. With the present artistes imbibing all sorts of habits from their fellow American counterpart and the Plastic Surgery which was popularized by American celebrities seems to be the in-thing for these our Nigerian celebs these days.  Whatever that is done under the Sun must always come to light,, no matter how perfectly orchestrated & Concealed. Strong Facts surfaced earlier this week,, indicating that the Lips of Abuja Based Pop-Star Mrs Regina Adeola aka GINA and also called "African Jolie" are PURE FAKE!!!

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20 Signs That You Love Your Partner Too Much

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When you love someone so much more than they love you, you set the stage for that person to reject you. It's like putting pressure on someone to eat even though he or she is not hungry, and then resenting his or her inability to respond enthusiastically.

Here are some signs that you've crossed the line between "loving" to "loving too much".

1. You felt empty and unloved before you met him or her, but now you feel even emptier and insecure.

2. You want to talk to him or her every few hours/see him or her every few days but unlike you, he or she is able to go for long periods of time without talking to you or seeing you -- and it doesn't seem to bother him or her.

Nigerian men, are now willing to sell your sperm?

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As Seen On PM News

As the Nigerian economic condition bites harder, many male citizens are now ready to sell their semen to couples who need them for procreation, P.M.News finding has revealed.

Many of the respondents to the vox pop conducted by our correspondent said they would not hesitate to donate their sperm for cash as long as it is not for ritual purposes but to help couples battling with infertility have children.

Those who said they would not mind making their sperm available for sale included young men as well as married men.

Donation of sperm and female eggs to couples and fertility clinics, considered a normal practice in most parts of the western world, had been a discrete practice in Nigeria due to the country’s religious and cultural beliefs.

Only four of the 25 male respondents said they would never engage in such an act with the excuse that it was sinful.

QUESTION OF THE DAY: Is It Okay To Smack Your Child, Or Is It Barbaric?

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Parenting in Nigeria in those days was accompanied with smacking as parents believed it helps instill discipline in children. As far as they were concerned, it worked like magic as the kind of well-mannered kids they parented made them proud and confident of their parenting methods.

I can’t forget how many knocks I received from my Dad while he taught me arithmetic. It took me back when my heart wondered when he tutored me after school. It worked I guess…especially the part where failure I was told came with beating; I made sure I never failed throughout primary school. We were not really on a tight leash in Secondary school, but whatever I learnt in primary school helped me in my quest for success ever since.

Letting Your 4 Year Old Son Live As A Girl...

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This is a bit confusing to me so decided to bring it here so we can talk about it. Is there any way a 4 year boy can know without any doubts that he wants to be a girl?

Kathryn and Jeremy Mathis have five children, including a set of triplets, one of which is a boy named Coy. Now according to Kathryn the mum, Coy, who loves pink, began gravitating toward girls’ toys and clothes by 18 months. Gender eventually turned into a bigger issue when Coy asked, at age 4, “When are we going to go to the doctor to get me fixed so I can be a girl?” A psychologist confirmed then that Coy was indeed transgender, at which point the parents decided to let ‘Coy be who she was.’

Groupie sends open letter to Gabrielle Union - I slept with your man

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These ballers and their ways. These groupies and their ways. Side chicks should know their lane na! Hehe! One of basketball player Dwyane Wade's jump-offs just put him on blast with facts only he and his fiancee, actress Gabrielle Union should know...

The groupie sent an open letter to Gabrielle via MediaTakeOut. Read it below

Seems like the Miami Heat has made its appearance on mediatakeout yesterday. So its only right i put Dwayne Wade on blast. First and foremost i'd like to thank ***** Wade, his cousin for booking my numerous of flights.

Ohh yea, hi Ms. Union. Good too see you stuck around and have a few more pieces of clothing inside of his house. The kitchen looks great by the way. I love the new counter tops. I would also like to thank Rich, the chef for his amazing breakfast. His cookies are the best.

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