My boyfriend forced me to pay a rent and house bills . What should I do?

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 I have a bf we dating 2 years. Both of us student. And we decided to live together. From the beginning everything was good. Until my guy start having problem with money, so it was a little problem to pay rent. And i said let me help you with some money, when everything will be alright you give me back. He said never, why will i take money from a girl, im a man. but later problem with money was more bigger so he dicided to take money from me. I was helping small, but im student and my parents not rich so I  cant give many.

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Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: I used my best friend to set up my Fiancee … What should I do?

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UNEDITED
I am name is RoseMary, I used my best friend to set up my Fiancee in order to see if he will cheat on me. Men are so heartless, they change like weather.
Now, My Best friend betrayed me and is now set to marry my fiancee, they have even sent me their wedding invitation.
I’m so devastated now…what should I do??
(Crying)

Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: My boss is a paedophile (What exactly should I do?)

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The person I work for just sleeps with girls aged 17 and below. If a woman is above 17 he says they're too old and refuses to own sex with them. My boss is in his 40s, and has five kids. He his very wealthy so he picks on young girls from poor homes who are desperate for the money to greatly help their families. Prior to this the girls he sleeps with in the hotel he owns were usually 16, 17 but of recent they're becoming younger. Last week I met a woman in secondary school uniform in his room. 

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PHOTO: Why You Should NOT Have $-éx

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Check out the hilarious story below narrated using traffic signs..
READ MORE: http://news.naij.com/42663.html

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Seven Good Manners Every Girl Should Have

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Most girls know this is a manner that we need to have, but it still has to be said. Saying please when requesting something and thank you upon receiving anything, even if it is just an answer to a question, is crucial to having manners. 

Being from the South, manners have been genetically instilled in me since birth. Don’t get me wrong, all Southerners do not have manners, but manners are still pretty much prized as being the ultimate quality to have, especially for a woman, around here. Certain manners can enhance your relationships, help you meet people, snag a new job you want, maintain a good professional demeanor, help you meet a man, make you more generous, keep you humble, and enhance your social skills. Read on to find my 7 favorites and do share yours with me, pretty please!

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Why Should A Lady Exp-óse Her Bó-dy Like This In Public?

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 Her name is Miss K, I don't know if she is the same Ms K that used to comment here o, but I hear she is a UK-based Nigerian musician and model.

All in the name of modern fashion our ladies are really going "mad" for real! See more photo below:

What do you think about her dressing?

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Should we be mad? GH actor Eddie Watson openly pees by roadside

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We’ve got Yvonne Nelson to thank for this – for showing us it’s not only Nigerians that act irresponsibly in… Nigeria.  She might have been joking when she recorded Ghanaian actor Eddie Watson taking a piss by the roadside, somewhere in Nigeria but comments show Nigerians don’t feel too happy about it.

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Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: Should I warn my ex?

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I need impartial advice from your readers please. I am a female who has been involved in a long distance relationship with a man in Nigeria, I live abroad. I have visited him over there and he has visited me here. However, I have always suspected there was a personal relationship between him and his female business partner, who is older than him and married too.

I even saw text messages on his phone from her, messages only a lover will send, but he denies any wrong-doing and says there is nothing personal going on between them.

This older woman lost her husband 7 months ago, and with me not being around, I believe their affair intensified over time. I had an encounter recently with this lady and I decided the guy was not worth my time so I ended things between us. I have cried and prayed a lot since then and one thing keeps coming to me, that he is under the influence of some kind of evil power of this woman's doing.

I want nothing more to do with the guy, I can never get back with someone that sleeps with another man's wife, but I feel like I need to warn him about this woman.

Should I say something or should I leave him to bear his cross?

How Couples Should Get It Going ( $-ex or Food)

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I can’t get my husband’s food ready and at the same time be his fantasy s-ex partner. It is not possible. One has to give way. A working class wife told me this on the phone:  'He wants his food and s-ex at the time I thought the ‘only way to a man’s heart is through his stomach’.

Well, the truth is that even after you feed your man well with the best delicacies that money can buy, with an average husband, food and s-ex still goes hand-in-glove.  Ladies, no matter what you think, it is what you do in bed and in other matters, apart from food, that will guarantee a sealed deal between you and your man.

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Check Out 9 Things You should never text your Ex

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One-word texts. Don't just text "Hey" or "Yo." If you have something to say or ask, do so in your initial text. Get right to the point. Don't put your ex in an awkward spot of trying to interpret why you're contacting him/her.

Terms of endearment or flirty emoticons. You're no longer a couple. Avoid using pet names or cute phrases that should be reserved for a relationship. You cannot keep the cute stuff post-breakup.

Resentful rants. If you're upset, tell a friend. Do not text hurtful things just because you're tired/lonely/drunk and it's easy to do so. Take the high road into singleness.

"Why didn't you text me back?" "Did you get my message?" Send one text. If he/she doesn't respond, accept that contact is likely not welcome yet.

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Check Out 9 Essential Items Every Guy Should Own.

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Men should also be fashionable like their female counterparts. Therefore, every guy should have the following items;

1. A White Cloth Shirt
The most versatile shirt you’ll ever buy. Easy to dress up with some formal trousers and a blazer but works equally as well dishevelled and rumpled with a pair of jeans. For maximum versatility, try and get one that is long enough to stay in your trousers but still short enough to look good when un-tucked.

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Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: She smokes & drinks too much, should I let her go?

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 I've been dating this lady for the last nine months and I need advise as things
are starting to get free from hand. I am ready to settle down but I don't know if
 I ought to make this woman my spouse or let her go. I am madly in deep love
with her but she's not what I want in a woman. I don't know how I was able to
fall in deep love with her in the first place. She drinks an excessive amount of,
she smokes an excessive amount of, she even smokes weed, though she tries to
full cover up it but I've caught her a couple of times. She gets drunk at least one
 time every other week.
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Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: We Both Have Genotype AS, I Do Love Her, What Should I Do?

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There is a girl I love so much, I really love her to the point that I would give anything just to keep her. The only obstacle now is that we both have the genotype AS… I heard its a bad for two people with AS to get married. What should I do?
EM

Re:

I am sorry you are in this situation. Actually, two people with genotype AS should not get married because there is a likelihood that they would give birth to a child with genotype SS and most times, children with this unique genotype go through some kind of illnesses most times. These illnesses sometimes get bad and the children go through a lot of pains.
Therefore, it is advised that two people with genotype AS should not get married. If one of you were AA, and the other AS, it would not have been an issue.
I know its going to be painful to let someone you love so much go, but it is better to let go now and date someone with the genotype AA……
Wish you well,

Five Friends You Should CUT Out Of Your Life Forever

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The Flake
Cancelling at the last minute, postponing until later, promising she'll be there soon and then mysteriously not responding to texts - believe me, you'll know if you're friends with a flake. (Tip: Look in the mirror and see if your face has a resigned, world-weary expression.) Not only is the process of arranging to meet up exhausting (all those emails with subjects like Re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: Tonight!), chances are you'll be in a bad mood with her before you even see her, which kinda makes the whole thing pointless

The Oversharer
You'll know you're mates with an oversharer if every time you hear her say your name in conversation, you leg it straight over and get ready to silence her with a manicured dig in the ribs. She re-tells your stories, blabs about that night you accidentally woke up at his place wearing an elf outfit and often accuses you of being 'SO oversensitive' if you call her on it. This is one endless broadcast you could seriously do with switching off...

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Ladies: Check out list of Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Boyfriend, Under ANY Circumstance

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1) "My ex did the exact same thing!" 

Whether it's a desirable resemblance (they both always hold the door open) or a less desirable one (neither one showers often enough), your boyfriend never wants to hear that he's anything like your ex. Ever. 

You don't want him to feel like you're always comparing the two of them, do you? Think about it: Do you really want him to imagine that he does other things just like your ex? Doubtful. Plus, he might think you're still hung up on your former flame. 

Either way, a comment like this won't do much for his self-esteem. So the next time you experience boyfriend deja-vu, keep it to yourself. 

2) "helen's pregnant ... shhhh"

Remember on Séx and the City when Carrie tells Aidan that Miranda's pregnant but that he can't tell Steve? Remember how upset Aidan was to hear the incriminating news? Your boyfriend doesn't want to hear information that could get him into trouble. And even if he does want to hear it, he really shouldn't. 
Don't burden him with someone else's secret. And besides, if he does spill the beans, your friend is going to be mad at you, not him. 

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5 ‘bad boy’ qualities even good men should have

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A guy who has better funny names for people than I do and knows how to mock and tease like even the meanest of the mean girls can get my heart.

Some women like “bad boys.” Actually, scratch that. Most women like bad boys. There is something about a man with an “edge” that is just alluring to us all. He’s mysterious, angry, confident, and full of swagger.

Still, marrying a bad boy is a bad, bad move. It’s one thing to have a roller coaster dating life with ups and downs and drinking and fighting (and hot sex) and passion. It’s another to have a marriage like that. The former is sexy. The latter? Not so much.

Most of us grownup women give up the bad boys for the nice boys once we start looking at marriage, and there is no doubt, that’s the smart way to go. But here are five bad boy qualities we all want even our good boys to have:

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Help!!! After I Had Sé-X With Another Girl Just For A Night, My Wife Won’t Trust Me Anymore! What Should I Do

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I had a one night stand with this girl. I was drunk that day and was not in control of myself. My wife found out about it and she was mad at me. She even threatened to divorce me. But I begged and pleaded with her. Now, we have resolved the issue, but my wife won’t stop stalking me. She does not do this before. She calls to know where I am and who I am with. She stalks me on facebook and other social media. Whenever I am asleep, she takes my phone, read through my messages and check the new contacts I have on my phone book. This attitude of hers is very disgusting to me, I don’t know why she won’t trust me again.

Dearest Ọmọ Oódua Readers: Should I Sl-éep With Him - Please Help

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ORIGINAL MESSAGE:

 I am a girl of 25 dating a guy by name Fred. We both love each odr I hv don so manytn for him n he hs don sam we dated for five yrs I no all his family membr cause he introduc me to evryone in his family. So we had a serious quarrel and we separated for months so I wnt into andr relatnship wit a guy cald henry.

henry loves n adores me he caries me lyk egg he ws vry hpi dt I cam into his lyf. We dated fr less than a year nw so early dis yr fred cal me to apologies dt I sud com bck dt he is sorry fr wht hpn so I cut d cal he kip disturbn n he arng fr us to met I wnt to met him he kneldown n ask me to marry him dt I sud nt distroy our long relatnship dt he is ready fr marrg nw so.

Ladies Pls Stay Away From B-utt Injections – Vanity Wonder [The Massive Booty Woman]

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Vanity Wonder, author of book Shots Girls who herself spent over $15,000 on illegal butt and hip injections,  opened up about her addiction to butt injections.Vanity, who nearly died after contracting an infection from a shot .

Vanity became an internet sensation when she posted pics of her developing booty and all the hardships she faced.  She revealed,

‘When I heard about butt injections I thought it sounded stupid but after a year in that environment as a dancer, everyone was doing it, it wasn’t such a foreign concept. I thought I might as well try it.  ’Then it became a competition – not for men but against other women. So many of us were doing it because we wanted to better than the other person.’ ‘It did become addictive but it got infected so I was left with lumps. So I had a choice, I could have a medium-sized lumpy butt or keep padding it with silicone to make it better. So it wasn’t my goal to get this big but padding it withsilicone is how this happened.’

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let's call it quits: After a Breakup, should the engagement ring be returned?

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Here’s a situation:

Mario Williams of the Buffalo Bills is a former number one draft pick and one of the highest-paid defensive players in the NFL. His former fiance refused his repeated requests to return a $785,000 diamond engagement ring, resulting in the court case, claiming instead that he made it “abundantly clear in writing” that he wanted her to have it. (Which is a curious argument considering the fact that his lawsuit is also “abundantly clear in writing.”)

From the man’s perspective:

This whole lawsuit situation is so disempowering, what if, instead, a man could use it to find some empowering meaning? That only comes from elevating your mindset, refusing to squabble, and asking far better questions.

– What if he found the gratitude in the situation and remembered how blessed he was with abundance and that this “learning experience” was worth far more to him than the value of the ring?

– What if he used it to drive him to even more success and wealth because he knows he can always find a way to earn more money?